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A Plea for Understanding--Beyond False Dilemmas on the Net, by Charles Ess
Moderate Communication
Such moderation or editing is not, in my view, "censorship." It
is rather:
- the simple business of men learning to take seriously the
perspectives, beliefs, values, and communicative styles of
"others" (including women and minorities, peoples of other
cultures, etc.) - so as to acknowledge in this perspective-taking,
the emotive impacts of both our overt forms of sexism (e.g., the
exchange of snuff pornography) and more covert forms of sexism
(i.e., how our tendency towards adversarial style works to
exclude rather than include those who prefer different
styles);
- seriously enough to learn how to communicate with others in
some measure in their own terms (rather than playing the
communicative provincial who insists on his right to simply shout
his own message ever more loudly);
- for the sake of expanding our own understanding of others'
perspectives, beliefs, values, styles, etc.;
- for the sake of more effectively communicating with others;
and
- for the sake of building communities on the Net that are
genuinely democratic and pluralistic and diverse, rather
than fragmenting the Net into ever-more homogenous and isolated
interest groups which only reinforce our original
provincialisms.
The appeal of this form of communication is based on
positive freedom.
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